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Rabbi Shmuley Boteach


Rabbi Shmuley Boteach


Posted: January 22, 2008 09:33 PM





Chabad Messianists: Wrong, But Still Jews


The Lubavitcher Rebbe was the Jewish colossus of the 20th century and would rank on any serious list of the most influential Jewish figures of all time. Uniquely capable of inspiring thousands to move their families to the ends of the earth to reconnect Jews with their tradition, he used love rather than fear, joy rather than guilt, and inspiration rather than criticism to breathe life into a moribund nation.

The shock of losing a man of such singular distinction led some in Chabad to mistakenly lend him immortality not by furthering his vision of Judaism as the light of the world, but by declaring him to be the long-awaited Messiah.

To be sure, the only Messiah recognized by the Jewish faith is he who fulfills the prophecies of gathering in all Jewish exiles, rebuilding the Temple in Jerusalem, and establishing a permanent era of peace on earth.

Maimonides establishes beyond the shadow of any halachic doubt that a great Jewish leader who causes the Jewish people to reembrace their tradition and fights God’s moral battles — feats the Rebbe accomplished without rival — has the possibility of being the Messiah. But if he dies without having fulfilled the relevant prophecies, he is seen as an inspired leader who brought the world closer to redemption, but is not the redeemer himself.

But as Edward Kennedy said of his brother Robert in 1968, “[He] need not be idealized, or enlarged

in death beyond what he was in life.”

I HAVE often told my messianic Lubavitch brethren that by insisting on the Rebbe’s messiahship they diminish rather than aggrandize him since they give the misleading impression to people outside Chabad that the Rebbe was more interested in promoting a cult of personality than in advancing the collective Jewish polity.

Indeed, what made the Rebbe great was that he was a mortal man. Like us, he was fallible. Like us, he wrestled with the limitations of his humanity. But, unlike us, he transcended the human predilection to selfishness and led a life of staggering altruism.

Unlike Christianity, which insists that Jesus was either divine or an impostor, we Jews have no patience for god-men, so distant as they are from our struggles and tribulations. What really turns us on is imperfect people who wrestle with their nature and contribute vastly to the perfection of the world.

Had the Rebbe been more than just human, his greatness would have been intuitive and consequently unimpressive.

STILL, I disagree utterly with those unkind critics who warn that the Rebbe-as-Messiah phenomenon is proof that some in Chabad will ultimately write themselves out of Judaism. Indeed, to compare Chabad messianists with Christians is libelous, preposterous, and ignorant.

It was not the early Jerusalem Church’s insistence on the messiahship of Jesus that broke them off from normative Judaism, but rather Paul’s later abrogation of the law. Early Christians did not

believe in the divinity of Jesus, only that he was the long-promised Messiah. There was nothing inherently heretical about this belief, even if it was not normative.

Chabad is a movement, nearly every member of which is passionately devoted to the most minute observance of Jewish law. This is often especially true of Chabad messianists. I debate them vigorously. But I do not doubt for a moment their immovable commitment to every iota of Jewish tradition.

For the most part, they are Jews with a deep spiritual orientation who desperately wish to see the world cured of its ills. Their mistake is to allow that yearning to spill over into desperation and to ignore the 3,000-year Jewish insistence that the Messiah be a living man.

Indeed, most Lubavitchers I know who insist the Rebbe is the Messiah do so more out of a visceral, emotional attachment to the Rebbe’s memory than out of any deep-seated halachic conviction. For them, making the Rebbe the Messiah becomes a loving honorific. Part of a hassid’s affection for his rebbe is to believe that his righteousness alone will redeem the world. The fact that he has already passed away becomes an inconvenient technicality which, while it cannot be justified, can be charitably understood.

THE NEWS, therefore, that a leading rabbinical court in Israel refused to allow into Judaism a Chabad-educated conversion candidate because he believed the Rebbe is the Messiah is deeply troubling and constitutes an act of serious contempt for a non-Jew who has made sacrifices to ally himself with the Jewish people. Comparing this with a Jew-for-Jesus wishing to convert is preposterous, given that Jews-for-Jesus believe in the divinity of Christ (which no one in Chabad would ever assert about the Rebbe) as well as the irrelevance of the Torah to modern times.

In 1992, just before the Rebbe’s 90th birthday, hundreds of his worldwide emissaries gathered in

Brooklyn to discuss how the milestone should be observed. Some said that every emissary should bring 90 constituents to meet the Rebbe, another that 90 new Jewish day schools be opened. I suggested that we should endeavor to have the Rebbe awarded the Nobel Peace Prize.

After all, the Dalai Lama, nominal head of Tibet, with only 2.6 million citizens, had won, as did Mother Theresa, in her simple white habit, for her faith-inspired humanitarian work.

Ultimately, no steps were taken to have the Rebbe nominated, a missed opportunity if there ever was one, given that few world personalities had more eloquently articulated man’s capacity for ushering in an era of global peace.

But this would be a healthy replacement for the prodigious energies of the Chabad messianists. Make the Rebbe and his teachings known to a non-Jewish world, who have scarcely heard of him but who would benefit enormously from his light.

The writer’s new daily national radio show begins airing on ‘Oprah and Friends’ on January 28 on XM Channel 156. His new book The Broken American Male and How to Fix Him will be launched this week.

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Rabbi Shmuley Boteach


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Posted: January 22, 2008 09:33 PM





Chabad Messianists: Wrong, But Still Jews


The Lubavitcher Rebbe was the Jewish colossus of the 20th century and would rank on any serious list of the most influential Jewish figures of all time. Uniquely capable of inspiring thousands to move their families to the ends of the earth to reconnect Jews with their tradition, he used love rather than fear, joy rather than guilt, and inspiration rather than criticism to breathe life into a moribund nation.

The shock of losing a man of such singular distinction led some in Chabad to mistakenly lend him immortality not by furthering his vision of Judaism as the light of the world, but by declaring him to be the long-awaited Messiah.

To be sure, the only Messiah recognized by the Jewish faith is he who fulfills the prophecies of gathering in all Jewish exiles, rebuilding the Temple in Jerusalem, and establishing a permanent era of peace on earth.

Maimonides establishes beyond the shadow of any halachic doubt that a great Jewish leader who causes the Jewish people to reembrace their tradition and fights God’s moral battles — feats the Rebbe accomplished without rival — has the possibility of being the Messiah. But if he dies without having fulfilled the relevant prophecies, he is seen as an inspired leader who brought the world closer to redemption, but is not the redeemer himself.

But as Edward Kennedy said of his brother Robert in 1968, “[He] need not be idealized, or enlarged

in death beyond what he was in life.”

I HAVE often told my messianic Lubavitch brethren that by insisting on the Rebbe’s messiahship they diminish rather than aggrandize him since they give the misleading impression to people outside Chabad that the Rebbe was more interested in promoting a cult of personality than in advancing the collective Jewish polity.

Indeed, what made the Rebbe great was that he was a mortal man. Like us, he was fallible. Like us, he wrestled with the limitations of his humanity. But, unlike us, he transcended the human predilection to selfishness and led a life of staggering altruism.

Unlike Christianity, which insists that Jesus was either divine or an impostor, we Jews have no patience for god-men, so distant as they are from our struggles and tribulations. What really turns us on is imperfect people who wrestle with their nature and contribute vastly to the perfection of the world.

Had the Rebbe been more than just human, his greatness would have been intuitive and consequently unimpressive.

STILL, I disagree utterly with those unkind critics who warn that the Rebbe-as-Messiah phenomenon is proof that some in Chabad will ultimately write themselves out of Judaism. Indeed, to compare Chabad messianists with Christians is libelous, preposterous, and ignorant.

It was not the early Jerusalem Church’s insistence on the messiahship of Jesus that broke them off from normative Judaism, but rather Paul’s later abrogation of the law. Early Christians did not

believe in the divinity of Jesus, only that he was the long-promised Messiah. There was nothing inherently heretical about this belief, even if it was not normative.

Chabad is a movement, nearly every member of which is passionately devoted to the most minute observance of Jewish law. This is often especially true of Chabad messianists. I debate them vigorously. But I do not doubt for a moment their immovable commitment to every iota of Jewish tradition.

For the most part, they are Jews with a deep spiritual orientation who desperately wish to see the world cured of its ills. Their mistake is to allow that yearning to spill over into desperation and to ignore the 3,000-year Jewish insistence that the Messiah be a living man.

Indeed, most Lubavitchers I know who insist the Rebbe is the Messiah do so more out of a visceral, emotional attachment to the Rebbe’s memory than out of any deep-seated halachic conviction. For them, making the Rebbe the Messiah becomes a loving honorific. Part of a hassid’s affection for his rebbe is to believe that his righteousness alone will redeem the world. The fact that he has already passed away becomes an inconvenient technicality which, while it cannot be justified, can be charitably understood.

THE NEWS, therefore, that a leading rabbinical court in Israel refused to allow into Judaism a Chabad-educated conversion candidate because he believed the Rebbe is the Messiah is deeply troubling and constitutes an act of serious contempt for a non-Jew who has made sacrifices to ally himself with the Jewish people. Comparing this with a Jew-for-Jesus wishing to convert is preposterous, given that Jews-for-Jesus believe in the divinity of Christ (which no one in Chabad would ever assert about the Rebbe) as well as the irrelevance of the Torah to modern times.

In 1992, just before the Rebbe’s 90th birthday, hundreds of his worldwide emissaries gathered in

Brooklyn to discuss how the milestone should be observed. Some said that every emissary should bring 90 constituents to meet the Rebbe, another that 90 new Jewish day schools be opened. I suggested that we should endeavor to have the Rebbe awarded the Nobel Peace Prize.

After all, the Dalai Lama, nominal head of Tibet, with only 2.6 million citizens, had won, as did Mother Theresa, in her simple white habit, for her faith-inspired humanitarian work.

Ultimately, no steps were taken to have the Rebbe nominated, a missed opportunity if there ever was one, given that few world personalities had more eloquently articulated man’s capacity for ushering in an era of global peace.

But this would be a healthy replacement for the prodigious energies of the Chabad messianists. Make the Rebbe and his teachings known to a non-Jewish world, who have scarcely heard of him but who would benefit enormously from his light.

The writer’s new daily national radio show begins airing on ‘Oprah and Friends’ on January 28 on XM Channel 156. His new book The Broken American Male and How to Fix Him will be launched this week.

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Maybe Baby
By: Rivka Levy

My husband and I have been married for well over a decade, and we’ve been blessed with two wonderful children.

Each child came at the end of a long, heartbreaking time period of ‘infertility’ – where doctors couldn’t find anything wrong, but I just wasn’t getting pregnant. Child number one arrived 4 years after we were married; child number 2 arrived two and a half years after that.

The second pregnancy in particular was incredibly trying – it’s before I’d even heard the word ‘emuna’ (despite the fact that we were religious), and I was in and out of hospital with one complication after another. I felt like I didn’t breathe for nine months, until after the delivery.

Although I desperately wanted more children – and I certainly wasn’t doing anything to ‘stop’ the process – honesty requires me to say that after the stress and worry of that pregnancy, I was in no rush to go through it again.

So it was only when my youngest’s third birthday came and went that I really started to want more children. By this time, I’d read the Garden of Emuna and heard a number of Rabbi Brody’s CDs, so I decided to pray for it. I prayed for a year, and nothing happened. Then, I decided it was time to go back to the doctors, who started me off on a round of hormone treatment (for no obvious reason) that sent my emotions all over the place and had me perched on the edge of an enormous depression after two months. At that point, I called Rabbi Brody for advice, and he said: “If you’d have asked me before you went to the doctors, I’d have told you not to take the hormones.”

I thought about this for a couple of days, and I came off the hormones, convinced that prayer WAS the way to go to, Bezrat Hashem, have more healthy children. Thus began one of the toughest times in my life. After another year, I still wasn’t pregnant; what’s more, Hashem fixed it that practically every close friend I had was pregnant at around the same time.

I felt so isolated, so lonely. I felt that I must be doing something terribly wrong for ‘everyone else’ to be getting the blessing that I so desperately wanted for myself. I said tehillim. I visited the Kotel and kever after kever. I gave charity. I distributed 100s of CDs. I prayed for friends who were having problems conceiving (Baruch Hashem, nearly all of whom are now new mothers). I checked my clothing for Shatnez. I asked 40 friends to bake challahs. I said Perek Shira for 40 days. I sent my husband to Uman for Rosh Hashanah, and then asked him to daven at the Kotel for 6 hours straight. Nothing changed.

I was doing Hisbodedut at this time – not an hour consecutively every day, but usually a good half an hour of talking to Hashem. I tried to think up arguments to ‘convince’ him to let me have more children; I begged; I tried to strike ‘deals’ with Hashem. I went from doing an OK job of taharat mishpacha to doing it as ‘machmir’ as I could.

Nothing changed.

Except that I started to dread being told that other people were expecting, or being invited to a brit or a simchat bat. The feeling of jealousy was so overwhelming. The situation was compounded by friends and family urging me to go back to the doctors, because they could ‘fix’ the problem.

After two years of all-consuming heartache, I cracked, and about six months ago, I went to a fertility doctor. He told me I was old (I was 34 at the time); that I’d been stupid to waste so much time on prayer alone; and that I could have six kids if I did exactly what he told me. I burst into tears.

Nevertheless, I made an appointment to get thoroughly checked out, and came back the next week with my husband. This time, the doctor spent a lot of time talking about checking for fetal abnormalities and aborting babies if there were more than two in there. I burst into tears again – and begged Hashem from the bottom of my heart to save me from these doctors.

I went for the tests and the check-up – and everything was fine. That’s when it hit me: even though I’d been praying for two years, some part of me thought that maybe something was wrong, and I’d have to go back to the doctors to fix it in order to have another baby. The doctors. Not Hashem.

When I realised that there was nothing wrong, I realised that the doctors couldn’t help me. It was entirely in G-d’s hands, and He had withheld more children from me for a reason.

The cloud started to lift. This was around the time my husband went to Uman for Rosh Hashanah. But it would take a couple more months until I really got what I consider to be *the* answer to my unspoken question: why me? Why was Hashem doing this to me?

My husband has been reading ‘BSde Yaar’ – a book on hisbodedut by Rav Shalom Arush. One day, when I was feeling a bit low about the ‘time of the month’ again, he read me out a passage that I can honestly say has transformed my life.

It was the story of a couple who’d been married for many years, and who had tried every prayer, segula, treatment and bracha going to have kids – all unsuccessfully. Rav Arush told the woman to stop asking for children, and to instead to thank Hashem for her infertility. That wasn’t all: he also told her to thank Hashem for each and every newborn baby that was born to her friends and family members.

Sounds hard, doesn’t it? But when Hashem sends you such a clear message, you do your best to listen. So I did my best to stop thinking about my heartache, and to instead start thanking Hashem for not having more kids.

The first couple of days, I have to admit I probably sounded more sarcastic than sincere; but I persevered, and an amazing thing happened. Very quickly – within three or four days – Hashem started to open my eyes to all the reasons I had to thank Him sincerely.

Waiting five years for another child has taught me patience; it’s taught me to appreciate the two enormous blessings I already have; it’s helped to make me humble, knowing that I truly am not in charge of my life, whatever my ‘plan’ says; and it’s brought me closer to Hashem in a way that nothing else could.

But this whole process has also given me tremendous insight into myself. I am not a ‘natural’ mother – I have to work very hard to give my children the time, patience and commitment they need. ‘Everyone else’ may have more kids, but everyone else can probably cope with them.

I’m starting to understand that in order to function, I need my space, I need some time to myself, and I need to pursue other interests outside my family. Hashem knows this, and is giving me exactly what I need to fulfil my tikkun down here.

Would I like another child (or two….)? Of course. No question. But this five years of infertility has been one of the most invaluable life lessons I’ve had, and it’s helped me to fix parts of my personality and middot that would have been out of reach any other way.

Is it still painful? Yes, occasionally. But it’s no longer pointless, and it helps me to remember that what happens down here has a higher purpose and reason.

It’s also made me realise, yet again, about the importance of finding a spiritual guide you can really trust, and of listening to the advice they give you.

There were times in the last year and a half when I wondered if I should have come off the hormones, or stuck with the doctors after all. Now, thank G-d, that is no longer a question. Whether it would have ‘worked’ is a moot point: the real point is that Hashem sent me a soul correction, and if I would have tried to ‘short it’ by going the doctors route, He would have had to have sent it some other (probably much harder) way.

I learnt lessons with the heartache I’ve had over the past couple of years that usually only come at the price of a terminal illness, G-d forbid. So instead of feeling sorry for myself, I’m feeling at peace. I’m feeling that I’m doing my best to go on the path that Hashem has laid out for me, and if there are more children along that path, there is absolutely nothing that can stand in the way of us having them.

Editor’s Note: Rabbi Shalom Arush’s guide to hitbodedut “B’Sde Yaar” (“In Forest Fields”) is now being translated into English and will be available, G-d willing, this coming summer.

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Maybe Baby
By: Rivka Levy

My husband and I have been married for well over a decade, and we’ve been blessed with two wonderful children.

Each child came at the end of a long, heartbreaking time period of ‘infertility’ – where doctors couldn’t find anything wrong, but I just wasn’t getting pregnant. Child number one arrived 4 years after we were married; child number 2 arrived two and a half years after that.

The second pregnancy in particular was incredibly trying – it’s before I’d even heard the word ‘emuna’ (despite the fact that we were religious), and I was in and out of hospital with one complication after another. I felt like I didn’t breathe for nine months, until after the delivery.

Although I desperately wanted more children – and I certainly wasn’t doing anything to ‘stop’ the process – honesty requires me to say that after the stress and worry of that pregnancy, I was in no rush to go through it again.

So it was only when my youngest’s third birthday came and went that I really started to want more children. By this time, I’d read the Garden of Emuna and heard a number of Rabbi Brody’s CDs, so I decided to pray for it. I prayed for a year, and nothing happened. Then, I decided it was time to go back to the doctors, who started me off on a round of hormone treatment (for no obvious reason) that sent my emotions all over the place and had me perched on the edge of an enormous depression after two months. At that point, I called Rabbi Brody for advice, and he said: “If you’d have asked me before you went to the doctors, I’d have told you not to take the hormones.”

I thought about this for a couple of days, and I came off the hormones, convinced that prayer WAS the way to go to, Bezrat Hashem, have more healthy children. Thus began one of the toughest times in my life. After another year, I still wasn’t pregnant; what’s more, Hashem fixed it that practically every close friend I had was pregnant at around the same time.

I felt so isolated, so lonely. I felt that I must be doing something terribly wrong for ‘everyone else’ to be getting the blessing that I so desperately wanted for myself. I said tehillim. I visited the Kotel and kever after kever. I gave charity. I distributed 100s of CDs. I prayed for friends who were having problems conceiving (Baruch Hashem, nearly all of whom are now new mothers). I checked my clothing for Shatnez. I asked 40 friends to bake challahs. I said Perek Shira for 40 days. I sent my husband to Uman for Rosh Hashanah, and then asked him to daven at the Kotel for 6 hours straight. Nothing changed.

I was doing Hisbodedut at this time – not an hour consecutively every day, but usually a good half an hour of talking to Hashem. I tried to think up arguments to ‘convince’ him to let me have more children; I begged; I tried to strike ‘deals’ with Hashem. I went from doing an OK job of taharat mishpacha to doing it as ‘machmir’ as I could.

Nothing changed.

Except that I started to dread being told that other people were expecting, or being invited to a brit or a simchat bat. The feeling of jealousy was so overwhelming. The situation was compounded by friends and family urging me to go back to the doctors, because they could ‘fix’ the problem.

After two years of all-consuming heartache, I cracked, and about six months ago, I went to a fertility doctor. He told me I was old (I was 34 at the time); that I’d been stupid to waste so much time on prayer alone; and that I could have six kids if I did exactly what he told me. I burst into tears.

Nevertheless, I made an appointment to get thoroughly checked out, and came back the next week with my husband. This time, the doctor spent a lot of time talking about checking for fetal abnormalities and aborting babies if there were more than two in there. I burst into tears again – and begged Hashem from the bottom of my heart to save me from these doctors.

I went for the tests and the check-up – and everything was fine. That’s when it hit me: even though I’d been praying for two years, some part of me thought that maybe something was wrong, and I’d have to go back to the doctors to fix it in order to have another baby. The doctors. Not Hashem.

When I realised that there was nothing wrong, I realised that the doctors couldn’t help me. It was entirely in G-d’s hands, and He had withheld more children from me for a reason.

The cloud started to lift. This was around the time my husband went to Uman for Rosh Hashanah. But it would take a couple more months until I really got what I consider to be *the* answer to my unspoken question: why me? Why was Hashem doing this to me?

My husband has been reading ‘BSde Yaar’ – a book on hisbodedut by Rav Shalom Arush. One day, when I was feeling a bit low about the ‘time of the month’ again, he read me out a passage that I can honestly say has transformed my life.

It was the story of a couple who’d been married for many years, and who had tried every prayer, segula, treatment and bracha going to have kids – all unsuccessfully. Rav Arush told the woman to stop asking for children, and to instead to thank Hashem for her infertility. That wasn’t all: he also told her to thank Hashem for each and every newborn baby that was born to her friends and family members.

Sounds hard, doesn’t it? But when Hashem sends you such a clear message, you do your best to listen. So I did my best to stop thinking about my heartache, and to instead start thanking Hashem for not having more kids.

The first couple of days, I have to admit I probably sounded more sarcastic than sincere; but I persevered, and an amazing thing happened. Very quickly – within three or four days – Hashem started to open my eyes to all the reasons I had to thank Him sincerely.

Waiting five years for another child has taught me patience; it’s taught me to appreciate the two enormous blessings I already have; it’s helped to make me humble, knowing that I truly am not in charge of my life, whatever my ‘plan’ says; and it’s brought me closer to Hashem in a way that nothing else could.

But this whole process has also given me tremendous insight into myself. I am not a ‘natural’ mother – I have to work very hard to give my children the time, patience and commitment they need. ‘Everyone else’ may have more kids, but everyone else can probably cope with them.

I’m starting to understand that in order to function, I need my space, I need some time to myself, and I need to pursue other interests outside my family. Hashem knows this, and is giving me exactly what I need to fulfil my tikkun down here.

Would I like another child (or two….)? Of course. No question. But this five years of infertility has been one of the most invaluable life lessons I’ve had, and it’s helped me to fix parts of my personality and middot that would have been out of reach any other way.

Is it still painful? Yes, occasionally. But it’s no longer pointless, and it helps me to remember that what happens down here has a higher purpose and reason.

It’s also made me realise, yet again, about the importance of finding a spiritual guide you can really trust, and of listening to the advice they give you.

There were times in the last year and a half when I wondered if I should have come off the hormones, or stuck with the doctors after all. Now, thank G-d, that is no longer a question. Whether it would have ‘worked’ is a moot point: the real point is that Hashem sent me a soul correction, and if I would have tried to ‘short it’ by going the doctors route, He would have had to have sent it some other (probably much harder) way.

I learnt lessons with the heartache I’ve had over the past couple of years that usually only come at the price of a terminal illness, G-d forbid. So instead of feeling sorry for myself, I’m feeling at peace. I’m feeling that I’m doing my best to go on the path that Hashem has laid out for me, and if there are more children along that path, there is absolutely nothing that can stand in the way of us having them.

Editor’s Note: Rabbi Shalom Arush’s guide to hitbodedut “B’Sde Yaar” (“In Forest Fields”) is now being translated into English and will be available, G-d willing, this coming summer.

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Parshas Lech Lecha: “1. Overcoming a negative upbringing

Bereishis 12:1 ‘Go, for your own sake, from your land and from your birthplace, and from your father’s house, to the land that I will show you’

Many kinds of dark and false situations derive from the [nature of the] land and city in which they arise. For, despite the fact that every place contains much in the way of good, in the sense of truth – nevertheless,ha’klippah kadmah le’pri (the peel/evil precedes the fruit/good) and zeh l’umas zeh bara Elokim (’G-d created one [evil] in contrast to the other [good]‘). Therefore, every place contains its own particular negativity, seeking to darken the light of truth in its own special way.
Similarly, there are types of darkness and falsehood that attach to a person as a result of certain birth [genetic] factors, as David said (Tehillim 51:7): ‘I was fashioned [from conception] in iniquity…’
In addition, all kinds of nonsense and falsehood attach to a person because of his family status. Thus, some people over inflate themselves with their important lineage. They conduct themselves with such gross self import, as if the entire world’s honor belongs to them alone.

Whoever wants to walk the holy path must go, exit and turn – from the path of everyone else. He must draw himself to the point of absolute truth that is rooted within his soul that is ‘a portion of G-d on high’, the quintessence of truth. For the soul is man’s essence. When a person says ‘me’ or ‘mine’ or ‘yours’, he is really referring to man’s essence, the soul, not the body that is merely flesh and blood.

This explains the verse: ‘Hashem spoke to Avram: ‘Go, for your own sake (lit: for yourself)…’. It is specifically ‘for yourself’, for your very essence, which is none other than the point of absolute truth that is rooted within you. And this is the meaning of ‘from your land, birthplace and father’s house’: We need to turn our back and completely pass away from all the falsehood, lies and confusion – in all their configurations – that seek to lay hold of us. This applies whether or not they derive their character from our place of domicile, or from birth/genetic factors, or from our particular lineage.
We just need to draw ourselves to the point of absolute truth [within ourselves]. Then we will attain the eternal goal [the next world] that corresponds to ‘the land that I will show you’.

Hilchos Geneivah 5:7

2. Searching for Hashem through the darkness

Bereishis 12:17 ‘And Hashem plagued Paroh and his palace with great afflictions because of Sarai, Avram’s wife’.

The incident of Sarai being taken to Paroh’s palace expresses the following idea: The tzaddekes/righteous woman was required descend to such an impure and filthy place in order that, with her tremendous spiritual power, even in such a place she would request and search after Hashem.
It was through this that she ascended mightily with Avraham – as in (13:1): ‘Avram went up from Egypt, he and his wife…’ – preparing a tremendous rescue for the Jewish people during the future Egyptian exile – that the impurity of Egypt had no control over the Jewish people. It also caused their exit from Egypt by way of the ten plagues, by way of the precursor of ‘Hashem plagued Paroh and his palace’ after taking Sarah there, as Chazalteach us.

Sarah created a path for the Jewish people that wherever they would find themselves in exile, even in the spiritually filthiest places – even there – they would request and search for Hashem. This is the concept ofayeh/where [is the place of His glory] in Likutei Moharan II: 12. Through this the Jewish people were extricated from there.

This also is the idea behind Esther having been taken to Achashveirosh’s palace. It was then [in such a desperate situation] that she [sought after Hashem and] exclaimed (Tehillim 22): ‘My
G-d! My G-d! Why have you forsaken me?’ (as the Gemara states in Megillah 15b). And it was through this that the toppling of Haman – the personification of the polluted might of the sitra achara/incorporation of evil forces – was engineered. Everything here also reflects the above idea: Showing the Jewish people that even in the filthiest places they must cry out to Hashem, searching and beseeching Him. This is precisely what Mordechai and Esther did when they assembled the Jews to greatly cry out to Hashem.

So it is in every generation, as it applies to the populace at large – or to the individual in particular. Every single one of us must constantly search for Hashem in every situation, crying out at all times to Hashem as expressed in the verse (Yonah 2:3) ‘from the belly of Hell I cried out’. We must never despair of crying out and beseeching. We must continue until Hashem looks and attends to us from heaven.

Hilchos Nefilas Apayim 6-9



(Via Likutei Halachos – Rebbe Noson of Breslov.)

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Parshas Lech Lecha: “1. Overcoming a negative upbringing

Bereishis 12:1 ‘Go, for your own sake, from your land and from your birthplace, and from your father’s house, to the land that I will show you’

Many kinds of dark and false situations derive from the [nature of the] land and city in which they arise. For, despite the fact that every place contains much in the way of good, in the sense of truth – nevertheless,ha’klippah kadmah le’pri (the peel/evil precedes the fruit/good) and zeh l’umas zeh bara Elokim (’G-d created one [evil] in contrast to the other [good]‘). Therefore, every place contains its own particular negativity, seeking to darken the light of truth in its own special way.
Similarly, there are types of darkness and falsehood that attach to a person as a result of certain birth [genetic] factors, as David said (Tehillim 51:7): ‘I was fashioned [from conception] in iniquity…’
In addition, all kinds of nonsense and falsehood attach to a person because of his family status. Thus, some people over inflate themselves with their important lineage. They conduct themselves with such gross self import, as if the entire world’s honor belongs to them alone.

Whoever wants to walk the holy path must go, exit and turn – from the path of everyone else. He must draw himself to the point of absolute truth that is rooted within his soul that is ‘a portion of G-d on high’, the quintessence of truth. For the soul is man’s essence. When a person says ‘me’ or ‘mine’ or ‘yours’, he is really referring to man’s essence, the soul, not the body that is merely flesh and blood.

This explains the verse: ‘Hashem spoke to Avram: ‘Go, for your own sake (lit: for yourself)…’. It is specifically ‘for yourself’, for your very essence, which is none other than the point of absolute truth that is rooted within you. And this is the meaning of ‘from your land, birthplace and father’s house’: We need to turn our back and completely pass away from all the falsehood, lies and confusion – in all their configurations – that seek to lay hold of us. This applies whether or not they derive their character from our place of domicile, or from birth/genetic factors, or from our particular lineage.
We just need to draw ourselves to the point of absolute truth [within ourselves]. Then we will attain the eternal goal [the next world] that corresponds to ‘the land that I will show you’.

Hilchos Geneivah 5:7

2. Searching for Hashem through the darkness

Bereishis 12:17 ‘And Hashem plagued Paroh and his palace with great afflictions because of Sarai, Avram’s wife’.

The incident of Sarai being taken to Paroh’s palace expresses the following idea: The tzaddekes/righteous woman was required descend to such an impure and filthy place in order that, with her tremendous spiritual power, even in such a place she would request and search after Hashem.
It was through this that she ascended mightily with Avraham – as in (13:1): ‘Avram went up from Egypt, he and his wife…’ – preparing a tremendous rescue for the Jewish people during the future Egyptian exile – that the impurity of Egypt had no control over the Jewish people. It also caused their exit from Egypt by way of the ten plagues, by way of the precursor of ‘Hashem plagued Paroh and his palace’ after taking Sarah there, as Chazalteach us.

Sarah created a path for the Jewish people that wherever they would find themselves in exile, even in the spiritually filthiest places – even there – they would request and search for Hashem. This is the concept ofayeh/where [is the place of His glory] in Likutei Moharan II: 12. Through this the Jewish people were extricated from there.

This also is the idea behind Esther having been taken to Achashveirosh’s palace. It was then [in such a desperate situation] that she [sought after Hashem and] exclaimed (Tehillim 22): ‘My
G-d! My G-d! Why have you forsaken me?’ (as the Gemara states in Megillah 15b). And it was through this that the toppling of Haman – the personification of the polluted might of the sitra achara/incorporation of evil forces – was engineered. Everything here also reflects the above idea: Showing the Jewish people that even in the filthiest places they must cry out to Hashem, searching and beseeching Him. This is precisely what Mordechai and Esther did when they assembled the Jews to greatly cry out to Hashem.

So it is in every generation, as it applies to the populace at large – or to the individual in particular. Every single one of us must constantly search for Hashem in every situation, crying out at all times to Hashem as expressed in the verse (Yonah 2:3) ‘from the belly of Hell I cried out’. We must never despair of crying out and beseeching. We must continue until Hashem looks and attends to us from heaven.

Hilchos Nefilas Apayim 6-9



(Via Likutei Halachos – Rebbe Noson of Breslov.)

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The man who smuggled himself into Auschwitz

More than a million people died in Auschwitz

By Rob Broomby
BBC News

When millions would have done anything to get out, one remarkable British soldier smuggled himself into Auschwitz to witness the horror so he could tell others the truth.
Denis Avey is a remarkable man by any measure. A courageous and determined soldier in the World War II, he was captured by the Germans and imprisoned in a camp connected to the German’s largest concentration camp, Auschwitz.
But his actions while in the camp – which he has never spoken about until now – are truly extraordinary. When millions would have done anything to get out, Mr Avey repeatedly smuggled himself into the camp.

Auschwitz was hell on earth
Now 91 and living in Derbyshire, he says he wanted to witness what was going on inside and find out the truth about the gas chambers, so he could tell others. He knows he took “a hell of a chance”.
“When you think about it in today’s environment it is ludicrous, absolutely ludicrous,” he says.
“You wouldn’t think anyone would think or do that, but that is how I was. I red hair and a temperament to match. Nothing would stop me.”
He arranged to swap for one night at a time with a Jewish inmate he had come to trust. He exchanged his uniform for the filthy, stripy garments the man had to wear. For the Auschwitz inmate it meant valuable food and rest in the British camp, while for Denis it was a chance to gather facts on the inside.
Evil
He describes Auschwitz as “hell on earth” and says he would lay awake at night listening to the ramblings and screams of prisoners.
“It was pretty ghastly at night, you got this terrible stench,” he says.
He talked to Jewish prisoners but says they rarely spoke of their previous life, instead they were focused on the hell they were living and the work they were forced to do in factories outside the camp.

FIND OUT MORE…
Listen to Denis Avey’s story on BBC News 24 throughout Sunday and on Broadcasting House, BBC Radio 4 at 0900 GMT.
Or listen to it here later
“There were nearly three million human beings worked to death in different factories,” says Mr Avey. “They knew at that rate they’d last about five months.
“They very seldom talk about their civil life. They only talked about the situation, the punishments they were getting, the work they were made to do.”
He says he would ask where people he’d met previously had gone and he would be told they’d “gone up the chimney”.
“It was so impersonal. Auschwitz was evil, everything about it was wrong.”
He also witnessed the brutality meted out to the prisoners, saying people were shot daily. He was determined to help, especially when he met Jewish prisoner Ernst Lobethall.
‘Bloody marvellous’
Mr Lobethall told him he had a sister Susana who had escaped to England as a child, on the eve of war. Back in his own camp, Mr Avey contacted her via a coded letter to his mother.
He arranged for cigarettes, chocolate and a letter from Susana to be sent to him and smuggled them to his friend. Cigarettes were more valuable than gold in the camp and he hoped he would be able to trade them for favours to ease his plight – and he was right.

Ernest lived and ‘long and happy’ life
Mr Lobethall traded two packs of Players cigarettes in return for getting his shoes resoled. It helped save his life when thousands perished or were murdered on the notorious death marches out of the camps in winter in 1945.
Mr Avey briefly met Susana Lobethall in 1945, when he came home from the war. He was fresh from the camp and was traumatised by what he’d witnessed and endured.
At the time both of them thought Ernst was dead. He’d actually survived, thanks – in part – to the smuggled cigarettes. But she lost touch with Mr Avey and was never able to tell him the good news.
The BBC has now reunited the pair after tracing Susana, who is now Susana Timms and lives in the Midlands. Mr Avey was told his friend moved to America after the war, where he had children and lived a long and happy life. The old soldier says the news is “bloody marvellous”.
‘Ginger’
Sadly, the emotional reunion came too late for Ernst – later Ernie – who died never even knowing the real name of the soldier who he says helped him survive Auschwitz.
But before he died Mr Lobethall recorded his survival story on video for the Shoah Foundation, which video the testimonies of Holocaust survivors and witnesses. In it he spoke of his friendship with a British soldier in Auschwitz who he simply called “Ginger”. It was Denis.

Ernest Lobethall moved to the US
He also recalled how the cigarettes, chocolate and a letter from his sister in England, were smuggled to him in the midst of war.
“It was like being given the Rockefeller Centre,” he says in the video.
Mr Avey traded places twice and slept overnight in Auschwitz. He tried a third time but he was almost caught and the plan was aborted.
He suffered from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder when he came back from the war and has only recently been able to speak about what he did and what he saw.
He admits some may find it hard to believe and acknowledges it was “foolhardy”.
“But that is how I was,” he simply says.

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The man who smuggled himself into Auschwitz

More than a million people died in Auschwitz

By Rob Broomby
BBC News

When millions would have done anything to get out, one remarkable British soldier smuggled himself into Auschwitz to witness the horror so he could tell others the truth.
Denis Avey is a remarkable man by any measure. A courageous and determined soldier in the World War II, he was captured by the Germans and imprisoned in a camp connected to the German’s largest concentration camp, Auschwitz.
But his actions while in the camp – which he has never spoken about until now – are truly extraordinary. When millions would have done anything to get out, Mr Avey repeatedly smuggled himself into the camp.

Auschwitz was hell on earth
Now 91 and living in Derbyshire, he says he wanted to witness what was going on inside and find out the truth about the gas chambers, so he could tell others. He knows he took “a hell of a chance”.
“When you think about it in today’s environment it is ludicrous, absolutely ludicrous,” he says.
“You wouldn’t think anyone would think or do that, but that is how I was. I red hair and a temperament to match. Nothing would stop me.”
He arranged to swap for one night at a time with a Jewish inmate he had come to trust. He exchanged his uniform for the filthy, stripy garments the man had to wear. For the Auschwitz inmate it meant valuable food and rest in the British camp, while for Denis it was a chance to gather facts on the inside.
Evil
He describes Auschwitz as “hell on earth” and says he would lay awake at night listening to the ramblings and screams of prisoners.
“It was pretty ghastly at night, you got this terrible stench,” he says.
He talked to Jewish prisoners but says they rarely spoke of their previous life, instead they were focused on the hell they were living and the work they were forced to do in factories outside the camp.

FIND OUT MORE…
Listen to Denis Avey’s story on BBC News 24 throughout Sunday and on Broadcasting House, BBC Radio 4 at 0900 GMT.
Or listen to it here later
“There were nearly three million human beings worked to death in different factories,” says Mr Avey. “They knew at that rate they’d last about five months.
“They very seldom talk about their civil life. They only talked about the situation, the punishments they were getting, the work they were made to do.”
He says he would ask where people he’d met previously had gone and he would be told they’d “gone up the chimney”.
“It was so impersonal. Auschwitz was evil, everything about it was wrong.”
He also witnessed the brutality meted out to the prisoners, saying people were shot daily. He was determined to help, especially when he met Jewish prisoner Ernst Lobethall.
‘Bloody marvellous’
Mr Lobethall told him he had a sister Susana who had escaped to England as a child, on the eve of war. Back in his own camp, Mr Avey contacted her via a coded letter to his mother.
He arranged for cigarettes, chocolate and a letter from Susana to be sent to him and smuggled them to his friend. Cigarettes were more valuable than gold in the camp and he hoped he would be able to trade them for favours to ease his plight – and he was right.

Ernest lived and ‘long and happy’ life
Mr Lobethall traded two packs of Players cigarettes in return for getting his shoes resoled. It helped save his life when thousands perished or were murdered on the notorious death marches out of the camps in winter in 1945.
Mr Avey briefly met Susana Lobethall in 1945, when he came home from the war. He was fresh from the camp and was traumatised by what he’d witnessed and endured.
At the time both of them thought Ernst was dead. He’d actually survived, thanks – in part – to the smuggled cigarettes. But she lost touch with Mr Avey and was never able to tell him the good news.
The BBC has now reunited the pair after tracing Susana, who is now Susana Timms and lives in the Midlands. Mr Avey was told his friend moved to America after the war, where he had children and lived a long and happy life. The old soldier says the news is “bloody marvellous”.
‘Ginger’
Sadly, the emotional reunion came too late for Ernst – later Ernie – who died never even knowing the real name of the soldier who he says helped him survive Auschwitz.
But before he died Mr Lobethall recorded his survival story on video for the Shoah Foundation, which video the testimonies of Holocaust survivors and witnesses. In it he spoke of his friendship with a British soldier in Auschwitz who he simply called “Ginger”. It was Denis.

Ernest Lobethall moved to the US
He also recalled how the cigarettes, chocolate and a letter from his sister in England, were smuggled to him in the midst of war.
“It was like being given the Rockefeller Centre,” he says in the video.
Mr Avey traded places twice and slept overnight in Auschwitz. He tried a third time but he was almost caught and the plan was aborted.
He suffered from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder when he came back from the war and has only recently been able to speak about what he did and what he saw.
He admits some may find it hard to believe and acknowledges it was “foolhardy”.
“But that is how I was,” he simply says.

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I love the fact that we can be cute and stylish in head-wraps/head-coverings. I for one prefer the African-American way of wrapping my hair as it denotes my culture in hip-hop and knowledge of self. I do wrap my hair in many ways and styles and love to learn new ways of wearing head-coverings.

I am mostly concerned as a women with balancing looking cute with being modest or in hebrew its “Tznuit”. You can be cute and represent yourself with style and culture at the same time. This is why I never understand women who put themselves so far out there that its like, “Do you even have any clothes on?”. I mean come on really, do you?

I want to teach my daughter that being herself is beautiful, and if she wants to make a choice to enhance beauty with makeup and accessories then she can one day. I don’t want her to think that without those things she is not beautiful. This is what the world teaches them, that unless you look like a model on a cover of a magazine, you are ugly.

This is so far from the truth, which is why I love MY Head-wraps, especially the African-American ones. They stand for beauty, for soul-sista, for independence, empowerment, self-esteem, knowledge, wisdom and understand. When we wear them, the world listens and stares. You have to be bold to wear all of that fabric on your head because people will not miss it. The same for women of all ethnicities. I have seen some very beautiful Arabic women with the nicest head wraps on with the prettiest makeup!

So here is my college of head-wrap pictures of me on stage or in my element of hip-hop, going out or in the home. All featuring a different way to style a head-covering.

Later I will write about the pros of wearing head-coverings and why most women should re-think doing it instead of labeling it a past-tense.

Shalom,
9:06 PM K.aRieL
I love the fact that we can be cute and stylish in head-wraps/head-coverings. I for one prefer the African-American way of wrapping my hair as it denotes my culture in hip-hop and knowledge of self. I do wrap my hair in many ways and styles and love to learn new ways of wearing head-coverings.

I am mostly concerned as a women with balancing looking cute with being modest or in hebrew its “Tznuit”. You can be cute and represent yourself with style and culture at the same time. This is why I never understand women who put themselves so far out there that its like, “Do you even have any clothes on?”. I mean come on really, do you?

I want to teach my daughter that being herself is beautiful, and if she wants to make a choice to enhance beauty with makeup and accessories then she can one day. I don’t want her to think that without those things she is not beautiful. This is what the world teaches them, that unless you look like a model on a cover of a magazine, you are ugly.

This is so far from the truth, which is why I love MY Head-wraps, especially the African-American ones. They stand for beauty, for soul-sista, for independence, empowerment, self-esteem, knowledge, wisdom and understand. When we wear them, the world listens and stares. You have to be bold to wear all of that fabric on your head because people will not miss it. The same for women of all ethnicities. I have seen some very beautiful Arabic women with the nicest head wraps on with the prettiest makeup!

So here is my college of head-wrap pictures of me on stage or in my element of hip-hop, going out or in the home. All featuring a different way to style a head-covering.

Later I will write about the pros of wearing head-coverings and why most women should re-think doing it instead of labeling it a past-tense.

Shalom,
Surgeon

Doctor S is a summa cum laude graduate of one of the world’s best medical schools. He is a general practitioner who spends half his time in his private clinic, and the other half as a public-medicine physician in Israel’s Kupat Cholim system. He is an individual of rare integrity and a veteran of three wars. At age 63, he’s still a renegade, and a medical version of a Frank Serpico. Therefore, we have to cloud his identity for obvious reasons, as you’ll soon see:

LB: Dr. S, would you describe yourself as a religious person?

Dr. S: Not in your sense of the word. But, I have a strong faith in The Creator and tremendous respect for our Jewish heritage.

LB: From your standpoint, does emuna play a role in medicine?

Dr. S: It sure does, not only from the patient’s angle, but from the doctor’s angle. My atheistic colleagues are blind to their own deficiencies. It’s literally impossible to cure without the Creator’s help.

LB: Are you saying that for my benefit?

Dr. S: You know me better than that. A physician that doesn’t recognize that he or she is a mere messenger of The Creator is probably arrogant and ineffective. Even worse, he or she is dangerous.

LB: Does that explain the recent scandal in an Israeli hospital where 12 doctors were arrested for experimenting on patients?

Dr. S: That and more. A physician with no emuna believes he has the right to give and take life, especially for the advancement of his own career and/or bank account.

LB: What type of experiments do they perform?

Dr. S: A surgeon may try a totally experimental procedure on a patient with no firm family backing or round-the-clock supervision, such as a neglected old person. If he succeeds, he gets fame, money, and a write-up in a medical journal. If he flops, they bury the patient and nobody cares. That’s why you people are problematic.

LB: What do you mean?

Dr. S: Haredi patients are usually surrounded by a bevy of caring children and grandchildren, with representatives of the Haredi community that keep an eye on doctors. Most doctors won’t toy around with a patient that benefits from strong family and community support.

LB: So the lonelier a patient is, the more vulnerable he or she is to experiments?

Dr. S: Correct.

LB: What happened 7 weeks ago when 4 Israelis died of flu vaccination?

Dr.S: The Health Department is working day and night to cover their bases, so I don’t categorically know. Behind closed doors, I’ve heard that a bad batch of vaccine snuck its way into Israel.

LB: How can that happen?

Dr. S: Public medicine, especially here in Israel, is looking to save money. Frequently, procurement managers buy cheap batches of outdated drugs from the USA, and use them widespread here.

LB: Are you serious? How so?

Dr. S: Suppose that a certain antibiotic has long been outshined on the USA drug market, and the manufacturer is stuck with a big inventory; the same antibiotic is then offered to Kupat Cholim for a song. Now, all the doctors in public clinics here will be instructed to give this antibiotic to anybody that walks in the door.

LB: What do you have to say about antibiotics?

Dr. S: Use only as a last resort. We don’t give the body a chance to repair itself. Many drugs destroy the body’s ability to fight disease on its own. Nevertheless, I want to stress that when somebody has a strep throat with 104 F. fever, then you zap them with antibiotics – there’s no other choice. But, I don’t give antibiotics for the flu (unlike many of my colleagues that give antibiotics for anything), because they do nothing against viruses.

LB: Do you recommend flu shots?

Dr. S: No! Sometimes, the flu vaccine embeds viruses within the body that we don’t know how to dislodge.

LB: What about alternate medicine?

Dr. S: Depends; it’s wildcat, especially here in Israel, and you could fall into the hands of a quack. I do believe in herb medicine, grandma remedies, natural foods and diet, and good old exercise.

LB: What’s your opinion on Ritalin for kids?

Dr. S: Do you ride horses, rabbi?

LB: Whenever I have the chance…

Dr. S: Then you know that a spirited horse is sometimes hard to break in, but once you do, you have a good mount. Giving a hyperactive child Ritalin is like drugging a horse instead of training it. No, I believe that caring and dedicated teachers don’t need Ritalin solutions.

LB: Do you recommend regular checkups?

Dr. S: As long as you feel good, stay away from doctors.

LB: Amen! Thanks and G-d bless, Dr. S.
9:05 PM K.aRieL
Surgeon

Doctor S is a summa cum laude graduate of one of the world’s best medical schools. He is a general practitioner who spends half his time in his private clinic, and the other half as a public-medicine physician in Israel’s Kupat Cholim system. He is an individual of rare integrity and a veteran of three wars. At age 63, he’s still a renegade, and a medical version of a Frank Serpico. Therefore, we have to cloud his identity for obvious reasons, as you’ll soon see:

LB: Dr. S, would you describe yourself as a religious person?

Dr. S: Not in your sense of the word. But, I have a strong faith in The Creator and tremendous respect for our Jewish heritage.

LB: From your standpoint, does emuna play a role in medicine?

Dr. S: It sure does, not only from the patient’s angle, but from the doctor’s angle. My atheistic colleagues are blind to their own deficiencies. It’s literally impossible to cure without the Creator’s help.

LB: Are you saying that for my benefit?

Dr. S: You know me better than that. A physician that doesn’t recognize that he or she is a mere messenger of The Creator is probably arrogant and ineffective. Even worse, he or she is dangerous.

LB: Does that explain the recent scandal in an Israeli hospital where 12 doctors were arrested for experimenting on patients?

Dr. S: That and more. A physician with no emuna believes he has the right to give and take life, especially for the advancement of his own career and/or bank account.

LB: What type of experiments do they perform?

Dr. S: A surgeon may try a totally experimental procedure on a patient with no firm family backing or round-the-clock supervision, such as a neglected old person. If he succeeds, he gets fame, money, and a write-up in a medical journal. If he flops, they bury the patient and nobody cares. That’s why you people are problematic.

LB: What do you mean?

Dr. S: Haredi patients are usually surrounded by a bevy of caring children and grandchildren, with representatives of the Haredi community that keep an eye on doctors. Most doctors won’t toy around with a patient that benefits from strong family and community support.

LB: So the lonelier a patient is, the more vulnerable he or she is to experiments?

Dr. S: Correct.

LB: What happened 7 weeks ago when 4 Israelis died of flu vaccination?

Dr.S: The Health Department is working day and night to cover their bases, so I don’t categorically know. Behind closed doors, I’ve heard that a bad batch of vaccine snuck its way into Israel.

LB: How can that happen?

Dr. S: Public medicine, especially here in Israel, is looking to save money. Frequently, procurement managers buy cheap batches of outdated drugs from the USA, and use them widespread here.

LB: Are you serious? How so?

Dr. S: Suppose that a certain antibiotic has long been outshined on the USA drug market, and the manufacturer is stuck with a big inventory; the same antibiotic is then offered to Kupat Cholim for a song. Now, all the doctors in public clinics here will be instructed to give this antibiotic to anybody that walks in the door.

LB: What do you have to say about antibiotics?

Dr. S: Use only as a last resort. We don’t give the body a chance to repair itself. Many drugs destroy the body’s ability to fight disease on its own. Nevertheless, I want to stress that when somebody has a strep throat with 104 F. fever, then you zap them with antibiotics – there’s no other choice. But, I don’t give antibiotics for the flu (unlike many of my colleagues that give antibiotics for anything), because they do nothing against viruses.

LB: Do you recommend flu shots?

Dr. S: No! Sometimes, the flu vaccine embeds viruses within the body that we don’t know how to dislodge.

LB: What about alternate medicine?

Dr. S: Depends; it’s wildcat, especially here in Israel, and you could fall into the hands of a quack. I do believe in herb medicine, grandma remedies, natural foods and diet, and good old exercise.

LB: What’s your opinion on Ritalin for kids?

Dr. S: Do you ride horses, rabbi?

LB: Whenever I have the chance…

Dr. S: Then you know that a spirited horse is sometimes hard to break in, but once you do, you have a good mount. Giving a hyperactive child Ritalin is like drugging a horse instead of training it. No, I believe that caring and dedicated teachers don’t need Ritalin solutions.

LB: Do you recommend regular checkups?

Dr. S: As long as you feel good, stay away from doctors.

LB: Amen! Thanks and G-d bless, Dr. S.
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A woman wearing a head scarf
A woman wearing a head scarf


According to Orthodox Jewish tradition, women cover their hair after they are married. The hair covering may be a wig (sheital), hat, bandanna or head scarf (tiechel/snood). Head scarves are typically worn by Modern Orthodox women, and are particularly common in Israel. The amount of hair shown underneath the scarf depends on one’s religious observance level.

Head scarves come in many colors and patterns, and can be tied in various styles—so don’t be afraid to add a personal touch.

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By Sara Cole
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A woman wearing a head scarf
A woman wearing a head scarf


According to Orthodox Jewish tradition, women cover their hair after they are married. The hair covering may be a wig (sheital), hat, bandanna or head scarf (tiechel/snood). Head scarves are typically worn by Modern Orthodox women, and are particularly common in Israel. The amount of hair shown underneath the scarf depends on one’s religious observance level.

Head scarves come in many colors and patterns, and can be tied in various styles—so don’t be afraid to add a personal touch.

I love the fact that we can be cute and stylish in head-wraps/head-coverings. I for one prefer the African-American way of wrapping my hair as it denotes my culture in hip-hop and knowledge of self. I do wrap my hair in many ways and styles and love to learn new ways of wearing head-coverings.

I am mostly concerned as a women with balancing looking cute with being modest or in hebrew its “Tznuit”. You can be cute and represent yourself with style and culture at the same time. This is why I never understand women who put themselves so far out there that its like, “Do you even have any clothes on?”. I mean come on really, do you?

I want to teach my daughter that being herself is beautiful, and if she wants to make a choice to enhance beauty with makeup and accessories then she can one day. I don’t want her to think that without those things she is not beautiful. This is what the world teaches them, that unless you look like a model on a cover of a magazine, you are ugly.

This is so far from the truth, which is why I love MY Head-wraps, especially the African-American ones. They stand for beauty, for soul-sista, for independence, empowerment, self-esteem, knowledge, wisdom and understand. When we wear them, the world listens and stares. You have to be bold to wear all of that fabric on your head because people will not miss it. The same for women of all ethnicities. I have seen some very beautiful Arabic women with the nicest head wraps on with the prettiest makeup!

So here is my college of head-wrap pictures of me on stage or in my element of hip-hop, going out or in the home. All featuring a different way to style a head-covering.

Later I will write about the pros of wearing head-coverings and why most women should re-think doing it instead of labeling it a past-tense.

Shalom,
5:06 PM K.aRieL
I love the fact that we can be cute and stylish in head-wraps/head-coverings. I for one prefer the African-American way of wrapping my hair as it denotes my culture in hip-hop and knowledge of self. I do wrap my hair in many ways and styles and love to learn new ways of wearing head-coverings.

I am mostly concerned as a women with balancing looking cute with being modest or in hebrew its “Tznuit”. You can be cute and represent yourself with style and culture at the same time. This is why I never understand women who put themselves so far out there that its like, “Do you even have any clothes on?”. I mean come on really, do you?

I want to teach my daughter that being herself is beautiful, and if she wants to make a choice to enhance beauty with makeup and accessories then she can one day. I don’t want her to think that without those things she is not beautiful. This is what the world teaches them, that unless you look like a model on a cover of a magazine, you are ugly.

This is so far from the truth, which is why I love MY Head-wraps, especially the African-American ones. They stand for beauty, for soul-sista, for independence, empowerment, self-esteem, knowledge, wisdom and understand. When we wear them, the world listens and stares. You have to be bold to wear all of that fabric on your head because people will not miss it. The same for women of all ethnicities. I have seen some very beautiful Arabic women with the nicest head wraps on with the prettiest makeup!

So here is my college of head-wrap pictures of me on stage or in my element of hip-hop, going out or in the home. All featuring a different way to style a head-covering.

Later I will write about the pros of wearing head-coverings and why most women should re-think doing it instead of labeling it a past-tense.

Shalom,
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Jewish Ways of Tying Head Scarves



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A woman wearing a head scarf
A woman wearing a head scarf


According to Orthodox Jewish tradition, women cover their hair after they are married. The hair covering may be a wig (sheital), hat, bandanna or head scarf (tiechel/snood). Head scarves are typically worn by Modern Orthodox women, and are particularly common in Israel. The amount of hair shown underneath the scarf depends on one’s religious observance level.

Head scarves come in many colors and patterns, and can be tied in various styles—so don’t be afraid to add a personal touch.

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Jewish Ways of Tying Head Scarves



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By Sara Cole
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A woman wearing a head scarf
A woman wearing a head scarf


According to Orthodox Jewish tradition, women cover their hair after they are married. The hair covering may be a wig (sheital), hat, bandanna or head scarf (tiechel/snood). Head scarves are typically worn by Modern Orthodox women, and are particularly common in Israel. The amount of hair shown underneath the scarf depends on one’s religious observance level.

Head scarves come in many colors and patterns, and can be tied in various styles—so don’t be afraid to add a personal touch.

Monday, February 22, 2010


The Baal Shem Tov taught that if one sees something wrong with someone else, this is a sign that he himself has a similar fault. He sees himself, as it were, in a mirror - if the face he sees is not clean, it is his own which is dirty. Yeshua teaches us to judge ourselves & make sure that we are without fault before approaching someone else about their sins. In doing this, we ourselves will have a clean soul daily.

3:33 PM K.aRieL

The Baal Shem Tov taught that if one sees something wrong with someone else, this is a sign that he himself has a similar fault. He sees himself, as it were, in a mirror - if the face he sees is not clean, it is his own which is dirty. Yeshua teaches us to judge ourselves & make sure that we are without fault before approaching someone else about their sins. In doing this, we ourselves will have a clean soul daily.

"The world is new to us every morning - this is God's gift; and every man should believe he is reborn each day." -The Great Baal Shem Tov. Yeshua taught us that we should die daily to our flesh and daily renew our minds. In this we truly die and are reborn each day.


Without daily edification of the soul and the daily process of redemption our soul is stunted in growth. There becomes no need for salvation if you are not willing to die daily and renew your mind. Salvation is the beginning of a journey, not an event that just happens and then you are "Saved" without working towards the goal of redemption. When I die, I want to have my life stand before me and show that after I got saved, I made it a habit to renew my mind and die daily to my flesh in order to gain the prize of eternity glory with Yeshua and those who have gone before me.
3:32 PM K.aRieL

"The world is new to us every morning - this is God's gift; and every man should believe he is reborn each day." -The Great Baal Shem Tov. Yeshua taught us that we should die daily to our flesh and daily renew our minds. In this we truly die and are reborn each day.


Without daily edification of the soul and the daily process of redemption our soul is stunted in growth. There becomes no need for salvation if you are not willing to die daily and renew your mind. Salvation is the beginning of a journey, not an event that just happens and then you are "Saved" without working towards the goal of redemption. When I die, I want to have my life stand before me and show that after I got saved, I made it a habit to renew my mind and die daily to my flesh in order to gain the prize of eternity glory with Yeshua and those who have gone before me.

The Baal Shem Tov taught that if one sees something wrong with someone else, this is a sign that he himself has a similar fault. He sees himself, as it were, in a mirror - if the face he sees is not clean, it is his own which is dirty. Yeshua teaches us to judge ourselves & make sure that we are without fault before approaching someone else about their sins. In doing this, we ourselves will have a clean soul daily.

11:33 AM K.aRieL

The Baal Shem Tov taught that if one sees something wrong with someone else, this is a sign that he himself has a similar fault. He sees himself, as it were, in a mirror - if the face he sees is not clean, it is his own which is dirty. Yeshua teaches us to judge ourselves & make sure that we are without fault before approaching someone else about their sins. In doing this, we ourselves will have a clean soul daily.

"The world is new to us every morning - this is God's gift; and every man should believe he is reborn each day." -The Great Baal Shem Tov. Yeshua taught us that we should die daily to our flesh and daily renew our minds. In this we truly die and are reborn each day.


Without daily edification of the soul and the daily process of redemption our soul is stunted in growth. There becomes no need for salvation if you are not willing to die daily and renew your mind. Salvation is the beginning of a journey, not an event that just happens and then you are "Saved" without working towards the goal of redemption. When I die, I want to have my life stand before me and show that after I got saved, I made it a habit to renew my mind and die daily to my flesh in order to gain the prize of eternity glory with Yeshua and those who have gone before me.
11:32 AM K.aRieL

"The world is new to us every morning - this is God's gift; and every man should believe he is reborn each day." -The Great Baal Shem Tov. Yeshua taught us that we should die daily to our flesh and daily renew our minds. In this we truly die and are reborn each day.


Without daily edification of the soul and the daily process of redemption our soul is stunted in growth. There becomes no need for salvation if you are not willing to die daily and renew your mind. Salvation is the beginning of a journey, not an event that just happens and then you are "Saved" without working towards the goal of redemption. When I die, I want to have my life stand before me and show that after I got saved, I made it a habit to renew my mind and die daily to my flesh in order to gain the prize of eternity glory with Yeshua and those who have gone before me.

Friday, February 19, 2010

 



<p>When we feel understood, honored and loved, we are more likely to listen to other's concerns about changing an aspect of our personalities. How does this work?</p>
<p><b>Step One:</b> Ask yourself: does my spouse feel that I love, nurture, appreciate and celebrate who s/he is?</p>
<p><b>Step Two:</b> Ask yourself: do I want my spouse to change because what s/he is doing is objectively wrong or because I just don't like it? Many of the things people argue about are not objectively wrong, rather, something that reflects the idiosyncrasies of the spouse, i.e., the infamous socks, empty gas tank, or being late because it takes longer to get dressed. This covers about 90% of issues, no exaggeration. So, what about the other 10% that you objectively believe still requires change?</p>
<p><b>Step Three:</b> Speak to your spouse with love and without expectation that change is necessary for your marriage to thrive. You can say, "I have a mini heart attack at the end of each month when the bills come. Perhaps we could figure out where and how we spend our money." Then you might be able to bring up expenses to cut back on, and areas where your spouse might think about being more cost-conscious.</p>
<p>Begin to model health. If you are upset at your spouse because s/he yells at the children, spends money on frivolous things, leave a mess, etc., make sure that you aren't guilty of the same. This doesn't mean you cannot raise the subject, but introspect first, as we often find faults in others that we have, too. We are much more forgiving and accepting of our own faults than others.</p>
<p>The simple rule is, if you have developed a loving relationship because you have learned to nurture each other, then the natural reaction is to try to please each other – which includes changing oneself. It is almost as reliable as a mathematical formula.</p>
<p>I knew an old couple in Israel whose wife would buy excessive amounts of food that would inevitably go bad and be thrown away. Both Holocaust survivors, it was probably her way of coping with her past. He tried to get her to change, but eventually realized that she could not change... and simply loved her because he loved her. Not because she did or didn't change.</p>
<p>To identify someone's shortcomings is easy, but choosing to love your spouse means to love him or her because you <i>choose</i> to love, identify, celebrate, support and nurture his or her uniqueness.</p>
<p>When we choose love in the present, we are also choosing love for our children in the future. If they see us living a life filled with choices and attitudes that creates love, then our children will absorb this and choose love for themselves and for their children.</p>
[From How to Get Your Spouse to Want to Change]

 

5:33 PM K.aRieL

 



<p>When we feel understood, honored and loved, we are more likely to listen to other's concerns about changing an aspect of our personalities. How does this work?</p>
<p><b>Step One:</b> Ask yourself: does my spouse feel that I love, nurture, appreciate and celebrate who s/he is?</p>
<p><b>Step Two:</b> Ask yourself: do I want my spouse to change because what s/he is doing is objectively wrong or because I just don't like it? Many of the things people argue about are not objectively wrong, rather, something that reflects the idiosyncrasies of the spouse, i.e., the infamous socks, empty gas tank, or being late because it takes longer to get dressed. This covers about 90% of issues, no exaggeration. So, what about the other 10% that you objectively believe still requires change?</p>
<p><b>Step Three:</b> Speak to your spouse with love and without expectation that change is necessary for your marriage to thrive. You can say, "I have a mini heart attack at the end of each month when the bills come. Perhaps we could figure out where and how we spend our money." Then you might be able to bring up expenses to cut back on, and areas where your spouse might think about being more cost-conscious.</p>
<p>Begin to model health. If you are upset at your spouse because s/he yells at the children, spends money on frivolous things, leave a mess, etc., make sure that you aren't guilty of the same. This doesn't mean you cannot raise the subject, but introspect first, as we often find faults in others that we have, too. We are much more forgiving and accepting of our own faults than others.</p>
<p>The simple rule is, if you have developed a loving relationship because you have learned to nurture each other, then the natural reaction is to try to please each other – which includes changing oneself. It is almost as reliable as a mathematical formula.</p>
<p>I knew an old couple in Israel whose wife would buy excessive amounts of food that would inevitably go bad and be thrown away. Both Holocaust survivors, it was probably her way of coping with her past. He tried to get her to change, but eventually realized that she could not change... and simply loved her because he loved her. Not because she did or didn't change.</p>
<p>To identify someone's shortcomings is easy, but choosing to love your spouse means to love him or her because you <i>choose</i> to love, identify, celebrate, support and nurture his or her uniqueness.</p>
<p>When we choose love in the present, we are also choosing love for our children in the future. If they see us living a life filled with choices and attitudes that creates love, then our children will absorb this and choose love for themselves and for their children.</p>
[From How to Get Your Spouse to Want to Change]

 

 



Don't try to fit into any mold that others make for you - sing your own song and have a wonderful Shabbat and weekend. Hashem loves you and so do we, so be happy!


[From Sing Your Own Song]

 

5:32 PM K.aRieL

 



Don't try to fit into any mold that others make for you - sing your own song and have a wonderful Shabbat and weekend. Hashem loves you and so do we, so be happy!


[From Sing Your Own Song]

 

 



<a href="http://www.breslev.co.il/articles/society/noahide_world/kabbala_and_the_cherokees.aspx?id=15178&language=english"Kabbala and the Cherokees

A walk into the Cherokee Council House is a walk into Kabbalah – the arrangement of the Council seats, seven feathers and orbs all allude to mystical paths and Hebrew roots.



[From Kabbala and the Cherokees, By: Maggid ben Yoseif]

 

1:47 PM K.aRieL

 



<a href="http://www.breslev.co.il/articles/society/noahide_world/kabbala_and_the_cherokees.aspx?id=15178&language=english"Kabbala and the Cherokees

A walk into the Cherokee Council House is a walk into Kabbalah – the arrangement of the Council seats, seven feathers and orbs all allude to mystical paths and Hebrew roots.



[From Kabbala and the Cherokees, By: Maggid ben Yoseif]

 

 



<p>When we feel understood, honored and loved, we are more likely to listen to other's concerns about changing an aspect of our personalities. How does this work?</p>
<p><b>Step One:</b> Ask yourself: does my spouse feel that I love, nurture, appreciate and celebrate who s/he is?</p>
<p><b>Step Two:</b> Ask yourself: do I want my spouse to change because what s/he is doing is objectively wrong or because I just don't like it? Many of the things people argue about are not objectively wrong, rather, something that reflects the idiosyncrasies of the spouse, i.e., the infamous socks, empty gas tank, or being late because it takes longer to get dressed. This covers about 90% of issues, no exaggeration. So, what about the other 10% that you objectively believe still requires change?</p>
<p><b>Step Three:</b> Speak to your spouse with love and without expectation that change is necessary for your marriage to thrive. You can say, "I have a mini heart attack at the end of each month when the bills come. Perhaps we could figure out where and how we spend our money." Then you might be able to bring up expenses to cut back on, and areas where your spouse might think about being more cost-conscious.</p>
<p>Begin to model health. If you are upset at your spouse because s/he yells at the children, spends money on frivolous things, leave a mess, etc., make sure that you aren't guilty of the same. This doesn't mean you cannot raise the subject, but introspect first, as we often find faults in others that we have, too. We are much more forgiving and accepting of our own faults than others.</p>
<p>The simple rule is, if you have developed a loving relationship because you have learned to nurture each other, then the natural reaction is to try to please each other – which includes changing oneself. It is almost as reliable as a mathematical formula.</p>
<p>I knew an old couple in Israel whose wife would buy excessive amounts of food that would inevitably go bad and be thrown away. Both Holocaust survivors, it was probably her way of coping with her past. He tried to get her to change, but eventually realized that she could not change... and simply loved her because he loved her. Not because she did or didn't change.</p>
<p>To identify someone's shortcomings is easy, but choosing to love your spouse means to love him or her because you <i>choose</i> to love, identify, celebrate, support and nurture his or her uniqueness.</p>
<p>When we choose love in the present, we are also choosing love for our children in the future. If they see us living a life filled with choices and attitudes that creates love, then our children will absorb this and choose love for themselves and for their children.</p>
[From How to Get Your Spouse to Want to Change]

 

1:33 PM K.aRieL

 



<p>When we feel understood, honored and loved, we are more likely to listen to other's concerns about changing an aspect of our personalities. How does this work?</p>
<p><b>Step One:</b> Ask yourself: does my spouse feel that I love, nurture, appreciate and celebrate who s/he is?</p>
<p><b>Step Two:</b> Ask yourself: do I want my spouse to change because what s/he is doing is objectively wrong or because I just don't like it? Many of the things people argue about are not objectively wrong, rather, something that reflects the idiosyncrasies of the spouse, i.e., the infamous socks, empty gas tank, or being late because it takes longer to get dressed. This covers about 90% of issues, no exaggeration. So, what about the other 10% that you objectively believe still requires change?</p>
<p><b>Step Three:</b> Speak to your spouse with love and without expectation that change is necessary for your marriage to thrive. You can say, "I have a mini heart attack at the end of each month when the bills come. Perhaps we could figure out where and how we spend our money." Then you might be able to bring up expenses to cut back on, and areas where your spouse might think about being more cost-conscious.</p>
<p>Begin to model health. If you are upset at your spouse because s/he yells at the children, spends money on frivolous things, leave a mess, etc., make sure that you aren't guilty of the same. This doesn't mean you cannot raise the subject, but introspect first, as we often find faults in others that we have, too. We are much more forgiving and accepting of our own faults than others.</p>
<p>The simple rule is, if you have developed a loving relationship because you have learned to nurture each other, then the natural reaction is to try to please each other – which includes changing oneself. It is almost as reliable as a mathematical formula.</p>
<p>I knew an old couple in Israel whose wife would buy excessive amounts of food that would inevitably go bad and be thrown away. Both Holocaust survivors, it was probably her way of coping with her past. He tried to get her to change, but eventually realized that she could not change... and simply loved her because he loved her. Not because she did or didn't change.</p>
<p>To identify someone's shortcomings is easy, but choosing to love your spouse means to love him or her because you <i>choose</i> to love, identify, celebrate, support and nurture his or her uniqueness.</p>
<p>When we choose love in the present, we are also choosing love for our children in the future. If they see us living a life filled with choices and attitudes that creates love, then our children will absorb this and choose love for themselves and for their children.</p>
[From How to Get Your Spouse to Want to Change]

 

 



Don't try to fit into any mold that others make for you - sing your own song and have a wonderful Shabbat and weekend. Hashem loves you and so do we, so be happy!


[From Sing Your Own Song]

 

1:32 PM K.aRieL

 



Don't try to fit into any mold that others make for you - sing your own song and have a wonderful Shabbat and weekend. Hashem loves you and so do we, so be happy!


[From Sing Your Own Song]