A won’t name my friend who asked a question on his facebook page, just to keep it friendly and confidential, but the situation goes like this:
He asked everyone what was their defining trait…you know, something that everybody knows you from or describes you.
Now, I wrote that my headwraps was my trait because everyone know me when they see someone walk in with a headwrap, most likely it’s me.
Other folk wrote, my butt or breast, or “You know (fill in a name), that girl so fine…..” Etc.
Ok, my beef is this. That is not a defining trait. PERIOD. And it shows just how much we value ourselves and lack of value therein.
This is the reason why….if ten people say the same thing, which they all did- “butt and breast and being fine”, then it means that is someone yells out in a crowd, “Hey fine girl with the big butt and breast”, that 10 women will turn around.
Not cool. Women were created to have some form of breast and a butt, so what’s so special about it that makes it a “Defining trait”. NOTHING AT ALL.
But if you tell them, they get mad and upset and say, “its always somebody….” Well, yeah I’m that one person that’s gonna tell you that if that is all you have to offer and is your defining trait, you are shallow with no depth and this is why the term “baby mama” exist.
It’s not just the physical aspect of this conversation, because the post was meant to be fun. Have everyone list that one trait, but when everyone list the same thing…..come on now.
So in conclusion, we can tell a lot about people by first impressions and what they do or say when they first open their mouth to speak or type. If this is the first thing that a woman will say, then what hope is their for them? None.
So why are these the same women who complain when men dog them or leave them to be with another women….because you all have the same doggone defining trait……
Now that’s some real talk.
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